Dear reader, if you have children who are still young? or have a nephew that age 2-5th or you already have a granddaughter that age? Children aged 2-5tahun that their behavior funny, cool but often their behavior it can also make us feel "resentful" and make us emotionally, a child age 2-5th messing often irritating, strange and make us as dizziness educate parents Nah, but few people know that a child who sucks, strange and already we are being labeled as naughty children who at that age. actually have amazing secrets that reveal them as they mature later. situation instead turned to when they would become young adults who prides his parents. Has your child like this? These are the characteristics and properties of small children who (yet) have success when they mature later!
1.) Children who Hyper-active or silent ataupula not want to sit still tid.ak characteristics Hyperactive Children: 1. Not Focus For example, your child is hyperactive. Thus, most of the activities he was doing could not last long. When he plays the ball, then there are other children who pass in front holding a balloon, he would throw the ball and to play with other kids balloons. soon as there are other children who are different, he could turn his attention to follow the child. Hyperactive child can not survive more than 5 minutes silence. The children also love obscure rant, and talk at will. Also has an attitude that is not easy to understand. 2. Against nature more difficult Hyperactive children are advised of the non-hyperactive children. For example, he was playing up and down the stairs and we asked him to stop, he would not say anything or angry with continued play. 3. Destructive as destructive accomplished, hyperactive children should be kept away from the room that a lot of valuable objects or glassware and the like. Attitude is like throwing, destroying goods is called destructive. 4. Tired of not Know Will not looked exhausted as he played well after he played. Every day run, walk and perform activities without clear goals, moving steadily presence. 5. Without a clear goal active child opens a book to read, open books for hyperactive children torn, folded, or be turned back without reading. 6. Not a good patient and Nosy Often when playing, he eagerly took the toy by force. Do not like waiting for their turn to play. Like pushing, pinching, or hit for no reason. Hyperactive children have advantages as well as disadvantages that. Surely parents are expected over pay special attention to children hyperactive. Not that the overhead of the other children, but had to educate a different way from usual. Behold the kids like these would be a kid who is very dynamic, as soon as they grow up they will be able to do the work in that same time, or even lead more than one company without feeling any difficulty at all.
2.) Children who Stubborn or Hard Once Arranged. unruly child who for example: There's always difficult when asked to afternoon showers, recalcitrant when told to clean up the scattered books, does not want told to rub teeth before bed, and so on. but the atmosphere is so home school house was a mess. The house is so messy, it's not finished-finished tidying up the house. If you are like many parents often become angry and stressed. Rebels Type Four Children 1. Liked control. Compared to other children, the child was very fond of the control group. They will do anything, even something as the result opposite their home can get, retain, and regain control in his hand. 2. Utilizing circumstances. They usually respond very quickly grasp other people and utilize it for the benefit of its own response, both in the social environment as well as in the family environment. Later, the ability to read other people's reactions can be useful. But for the kids, this exploitive capabilities used to exploit other people and make you dizzy. 3. Did not see her involvement in an issue. Not only did not see him play in a problem, but also convince themselves that others in sekitarnyalah who deliberately create problems. 4. High tolerance for negative things. They like to evoke anger, and negativity of others. And often succeeded in doing so. (Source: Try and Make Me, Ray Levy, Ph.D.) When in fact the kids like this one day when they grow up will have an amazing achievement and could be corporate leaders or leader of a very successful agency with a highly distinguished career advancement rapidly. 3.) Children who Mingle Once Shy and difficult. Example: The boy is happy to be alone and do something in her room, and is very whiny child even once. Feelings of shame are feelings of anxiety experienced by a person to other people's views on him. There is interpreted as "strange", "caution", "suspicious" and so on. In general, human birth has had little sense of shame, but when that feeling has turned into a kind of fear is excessive, then it would be a phobia, the fear of pressure from other people or are afraid to face the public. Children are always shy away from the crowd and can not actively mix with the others. teacher is not easy to tell if a shy student, because in general they do not like noise or problems. Shyness can be a serious problem because it will hinder the child's life, for example in the association, the growth of self-esteem, learning, and adaptation. Traits generally shy child is too sensitive, indecisive, isolated, moody, and difficult to get along well. So they need to be given help. CAUSE PROBLEMS 1. Descendants element This is a factor that is not directly and uncertain. Since the birth of the child looks a bit sensitive and it probably happens because when mother nature while containing the physical and mental pressure. But this also can not be a strong evidence of a sensitive child later whether it will be a prude. 2. Childhood Less Excited There are some children who experience things that are less fun in childhood. For example, parents often move, parental divorce, parental death, was forced to change schools or insulted by a friend and so on. All the experiences that lead to disruption of their social relationship with the environment, like dodge or retreat, and did not dare to get along with strangers. 3. Less societal shy nature would happen if a child lives with a background in which he was neglected by his parents, or raised in a family that retreated, too restrained so they can not have normal social relationships with people. 4. Inferiority feelings of embarrassment that might arise because of short stature children, being rigid or has a bad habit, and then trying to cover it up with a way to avoid promiscuity alone or with others. Due to lack of confidence and thinks he is not comparable with others, he does not like to show themselves in the crowd. 5. Others view Many children who are shy because of the views of others who had penetrated into him since childhood. Adults may often said that he was shy, even teachers and friends also say the same, so that eventually he became a really shy. Though children like these would be children who excel in science and technology, or it could be seniman2 and they become world class maestro, they are children who are sensitive and full of love, especially love for the parents. 4.) Children who Nagging Too and Do not Know Shame on the environment. Example: This child often even tend to make parents embarrassing a child so often go awry. A little talk, parents are concerned. Many conversations, make resentful son skittish. Facing boy "nag", how meladeninya? Is it true that it also mirrors the high intellect? After the dress rehearsal for the musical performances, a group of children who are members of a choir poured out of a theater. Their boisterous sound, like a wasp out of the nest. Understandably the children. But, try to see this one kid. "Ma, Mama, look at baseball I've been on stage. Which stood next to his name Nia. schoolmates him. Mama knows' it. Nah, little boy in front of him, the two hair ponytail, it lo a pink shirt, Mama see it? style he is it wrong yes, Ma. 'Kan should go shake his baseball, his head just wrote. Yeah, right Ma? Uh, Ma, Ma, Si Nia was not it also ngeles ballet deket in our home studio. was lo Ma, the mango tree in the yard there. know, right Ma .... " Read alone may make tired, especially when heard directly that glides sentences of five-year-old girl was. Could without being interrupted, he still continued to talk even when it has entered into a car to take them home. His mother was nervous, did not know how to serve children who belong talkative or "nag" is. Shouted, dijewer, or silenced? Does your son or daughter is still a toddler also has a tendency to sort it? Blessed are you if so, because on one hand it could be a sign that the child has the intellectual capacity that is okay. But, on the other hand you need to be concerned about, because it could indicate there is something wrong in him; especially if the material discussed skipping. Though children like this will be a headliner child when they mature later, the kids like This really has a talent show courage when they appear in public, and their ability to express themselves. Such history has proved time and again that children who used to be when they were small children who are considered as strange, stupid and irritating as "caterpillars" but in fact, after instead they mature into people who succeed and famous dikehidupan. these children who had been considered problematic behavior is just like "ulatbulu" that disgusting, itchy and suitable to be removed but the truth is that children learn to recognize themselves and their surroundings when they minor with parents who taught her upbringing as "intelligent" means helping the kids ready for air "metamorphosis" when I grow up someday. expected to be able to educate parents in any way smart and be patient in dealing with children who are considered as "caterpillar fur" is.